Why more HP when you want sails not fumes? I'll share my perspective. I avoid running the engine as much as possible. The only time I run it is to get in and out of the marina, when there isn't enough wind, or if we just need to get there (usually influenced by the admiral or crew.) That said, if you're already in a situation when the sails are down and you're running in motor-boat mode, why not get the most oomph you can? I have an Etec 50 and am very happy with it, however, despite my preference to sail over motor by an overwhelming margin, I wish I had a 90 or 115 Etec. Certainly not worth it for me to upgrade considering the cost and that I probably won't keep the boat for more than a year or so. (Want to go bigger.) That said, consider your sailing grounds. Anything larger than a 50 hp is useless in heavy seas or even chop. In heavy seas, you won't want to go more than 5-6 knots. In chop, you'll get soaked if you go much above 7-8 knots. If you're in smooth water, you'll really reap the benefits of the larger engine. 10 HP is fine if you have no desire or need to go fast, but it can get you in trouble if you find yourself in big seas, strong wind or current.
As for brand, Etec is the best outboard out there bar-none. Do some searches on this site. You will notice that the Etecs get better performance at the same HP than other brands, plus they’re reliable, and clean burning. The one exception to performance may be the Merc 75. The downside is the Mercs are massive. Suzukis are quite a large package too. Compare a Suzi 60 to an Etec 115. Almost the same size. I believe the Etec 90 is smaller than the Suzuki 60 or Merc 75. Yamaha is slender but quite tall. Perhaps too tall to clear the helm seat (the larger HPs of course.)
As for weight, I don't believe a Mac

would suffer much from anything under 400#. It may actually benefit, except in very light air. Reason being is that the Mac is bow-heavy. A large portion of the water ballast and the 300# permanent ballast is in the front 1/3 of the boat. Having some weight on the transom, in theory may balance it out. I think this will likely be the case on a broad reach with quartering seas. I almost always sail with the engine tilted up (disconnected from the steering.) In quartering seas, however, I lower it. The drag and lower weight distribution on the stern actually makes the boat more stable and decreases the tendency to broach when swept by a quartering wave. You do go a bit slower, but sail much straighter which ultimately is faster. I would venture to guess that stability would increase even more with a heavier engine.
Take all with a grain of salt. On my pond, I usually have to put up the full enclosure to open up my 50 HP at WOT, otherwise, I’d get soaked rather quickly. My next engine/next boat will probably be a 30 hp inboard diesel, delivering about 7 knots.
Good luck with your selection.
Leon