I prefer to reef the main first, then the jib only because the reefed jib gets too baggy and raises the CE too high on the boat inducing additional heeling. When you reef the jib you should move your jib cars so that the sheets intersect the jib luff at mid point. The 150 makes this almost impossible as the sheets must be moved to the inside of the shrouds to the cars on the cabin top. A hove to is a good thing to do when dealing with the 150.
If you want your lady friends--whatever rank you assign to them--to sail with you, consider sailings on an instructor's boat. A little bit of confidence will go a long way. If the crew solely relies on you-a novice skipper-and is not part of the boat then you will probably have to put the sails away and enjoy your iron genny for awhile because no confidence means no Fun for everyone. :cry
For newbies/green crew, use the 110 jib until you learn to sail the boat-then go for the 150. If you have a 150, reef it to 100 before you set sail. Learning will be much easier, safer and quieter--remember, NO YELLING
Bob


