I have to chime in first and state that I did not know that Ghandi sailed much.Again, my advice is to not take this too seriously for season one or two...spend your time handling your boat and having fun. The first 90% of sailing is learned in year one, the next 10% the rest of your life (Ghandi said that)
That being said, here is a copy paste from an earlier post I made.
I will add that near if not all sites and books state that uppers are tensioned, lowers are set at or near zero.More important than the chicken or the egg is what task you expect each to do.
forestay controls mast rake
Lowers control lower mast lee sag and to a degree lee bend, (if thats an accurate term) They are different.
Uppers control upper mast lee sag and contribute to Mid to lower mast bend (fore/ aft) and they control forestay tension.
Back stay contributes to mid to upper mast bend (fore /aft) and helps control forestay sag.
