post Matthew reflections
Posted: Wed Oct 19, 2016 7:45 am
Matthew has come and gone for most of us. My prayers and hope extended to all still suffering from flooding and loss of loved ones. I did, however on a much more modest scale experience some strong emotions during the prep for the hurricane. I am thinking that sharing some of them might be helpful for me and validating for a few others. I’ll be as brief as I can. Background: I have had my 26X since 2003. In 2004 we had three hurricanes go through Orlando within a six-week period. One, Charlie, was a category 2 hurricane when it hit my house and the boat. The others had “calmed down” to cat 1’s by the time they reached us. I evacuated for the middle one. The Mac took a hit on the first one, nothing serious, but a tree fell on the mast and bent the mast/boom crutch. I was a chipper 60 y/o then, and I am now 72. Those earlier memories resurfaced as I scurried around before Matthew getting the Mac, my other boats, house, yard, travel trailer and daughter’s ski boat, ready for Matthew, I was alert, but not particularly concerned until the Tuesday night forecast called for 97 mph winds at the marina where my Mac, “American Spirt”, is moored. My fellow shipmates on this forum were recommending unstepping the mast and putting the boat on the trailer. I knew I did not have the time/energy to get it to the ramp and on the trailer, but my grandson and I did get the mast down and the roller furled jib secured to it. As I looked around the marina at the sketchy efforts most of the other boaters were taking, coupled with my own fatigue, I remember thinking very clearly, that I may not be able to protect my boat---in a nutshell, “I am vulnerable!” At the end of the day, with the house secure, water stored, extra food in stock, generator checked out, we settled down to have a hurricane and likely be without power for a few days. I really just did NOT want to have to go through that…again. But we did, but without loss of power, thankfully, and the winds at the marina never got above 50 as it turned out. Nothing but debris in the yard. But, as we dealt with the clean-up and followed the progress of the hurricane up the coast, I definitely felt older. I found myself wondering about trying to keep the Mac; perhaps it was time to downsize with a boat I could keep at home that would, for me, be a truly trailerable sailboat. I started looking online at websites for the 14-17 ft. Com-Pac catboats, the Hobie sailing kayaks, and, (here it goes folks…pontoon boats). All of these alternatives were starting to look good to me. We started to have some serious discussion about the state of sailing in our lives at 72/70 respectively. As my wife and I talked she shared with me that she enjoyed motoring on the Mac but not sailing. Her diminished participation in sailing with the Mac had to do with its “tenderness” going to weather. After much discussion, she decided she wanted to have more participation in sailing rather than just going along to be with me, even began to get excited about wanting to single hand one of our 8-10 ft. dinghies. I, in turn, agreed to use more reefing to keep the Mac sailing at less than 15-degree heel going to weather while she works on the anxiety issue. She is a retired psychologist, so I know she will do well with that, if I work with her on it. So, in that context we set sail last Monday on American Spirit for the first time since the hurricane. We had a great sail---10 knots with gusts to 14 with reefed main and jib. So we are “steady as you go” for now, but will be having talks over the winter about the future of our Mac next spring. My thinking in starting this thread is to share our thinking as we re-evaluate our Mac ownership in light of aging and changing needs. I would appreciate others’ thoughts and ideas around these issues, too. I will be “out of pocket” for a few days while I attend my 50th college reunion, but look forward to some dialogue next week.


