Hi John! Congrats on the new boat! You’re going to have a lot of fun with it! And remember it’s not work that you’ll be doing to it, it’s a love for one’s hobby.
I live in California and drove to Texas 2 yrs ago to pick my boat up so I know what you’re about to go through. 25 hour drive one way! Over the weekend my wife and I drove to Texas, stayed the night at a motel, then the next day picked up the boat and drove home taking turns driving/sleeping.
Here are a couple tips I’ve learned along the way. Bring a 12volt portable air compressor and get the tires with the correct air pressure in them. Ask what size ball the trailer takes and make sure yours matches and is well greased. When you hitch the boat trailer to your truck make sure the trailer is good and tight onto the ball. Jump up and down on the tongue and make absolutely sure it is positively on there securely. Drive the truck forward a foot and recheck. If the trailer tongue is the screw-down type make double sure it is screwed all the way tight and cannot be screwed down any more. (I have a completely new rear end on my Grand Cherokee because I did not check this correctly) I learned hitting a RR track will toss the boat and trailer on top of your car!
Last but not least bring a half dozen pieces of 2 ft. lengths of rope and a roll of duct tape to secure all the wires you see strewn all about the top of the deck. Bring some towels to wrap the chainplates up on the sides of the boat. Duct tape them and tie the wires to the mast. YOU DON’T WANT ANY STEEL WIRE FLAPPING AGAINST THE BOAT ON THE DRIVE HOME!
Same for the inside. Take the mast and wrap & tape towels around any pole ends so they do not bang against the inside walls of the sailboat. They will and they will chip away at the gelcoat and glass. So nothing laying against the glass anywhere except something soft like a rope or towel.
Good luck and be safe!