I have a lady sailor friend who comes over to my boat when I'm there & if we can't go sailing we'll just relax on the boat & lots of times she'll say Hey what needs fixing or attention on the boat let's do it & when we r done for the day she'll make dinner on the boat & say later what a great relaxing day she had & I agree.
So I guess it's all about making the best of the moment! On hand
Maybe u need to talk to the Neptune God's & say something nice to them
J
